Real help for real people living with the after effects of high-control religion & purity culture.
Work with a sex therapist-turned-coach to fully unshame, & reclaim yourself & your life.
My approach
I help my clients to heal from the harm done by purity culture in order to become healthy and whole sexual beings, individually or together.
So many of my clients have experienced the detrimental impact of rigid, sex-negative messaging, leading to fear and shut-down around intimacy, as well as dynamics that wreak havoc on relationships.
I’m a former licensed religious trauma and sex therapist turned coach, consultant, and guide for the real relationships & real people who are healing from religious trauma, purity culture, and the lingering effects of high-control environments.
I spent over a decade working in the therapy world — and there were countless beautiful experiences in that container. But the deeper I got into the system, the more I realized how often it required me to work within boxes that didn’t reflect the whole truth of human experience.
Leaving licensed therapy was one of the most aligned decisions I’ve made. It allowed me to offer the kind of work I believe in: intuitive, liberatory, relational, and real. No diagnoses. No insurance codes. Just honest, grounded support for your healing and expansion.
Coaching with a holistic approach
Work with someone who understands
My experience with high control Christianity, young marriage, parenthood, and deconstruction has led to several years learning about the complex harm done to us in that space. I know what it’s like to live inside rigid systems built on shame, fear, and control. I also know how powerful it is to break free — and to rebuild your life from a place of deep self-trust.
“Raised in a conservative Evangelical setting, I had a very negative and fear-filled view of sex. I also naively thought I should just wait until my wedding night to start learning and mentally preparing myself. Thankfully, I came across Halli’s coaching services six months in advance, and she was a game changer for me. By recommending books for my specific situation, suggesting different tools, strategies, and frameworks, my entire mindset shifted for the better.”
— CLIENT TESTIMONIAL