Undo purity culture’s programming to create a sex life you love.
I’m Halli Carbrey, MA. A religious trauma & sex therapist turned coach & educator.
What I Help With
If you grew up in a sex-negative religious environment, you’re not broken —
you were programmed for failure.
I specialize in helping people like you:
Release lingering shame, fear, dysfunction, or dread around sex & sexuality
Re-write your relationship script to create authentic intimacy with your partner(s)
Reprogram your nervous systems to expand your experience of sex & intimacy
Explore kink, identity questions, non-monogamy, & more
With over ten years of clinical experience behind me, I’ve had time to curate a holistic approach that actually helps people heal this part of their lives.
I’ve witnessed countless clients move from shame and shutdown to confidence, pleasure, and authentic intimacy — and you can too.
I’d be honored to help you begin your own transformation.
Here’s what matters:
The approach and the coach.
This isn’t just my work — it’s my story.
I grew up in high-control religion and purity culture, and spent years unshaming & reclaiming my own sexuality and my life.
I know first-hand how shame, fear, and control can disconnect you from yourself — and how powerful it is to break free and thrive.
Now I help others do the same.
Your transformation isn’t just possible — it’s within reach.
“Raised in a conservative Evangelical setting, I had a very negative and fear-filled view of sex. I also naively thought I should just wait until my wedding night to start learning and mentally preparing myself. Thankfully, I came across Halli’s coaching services six months in advance, and she was a game changer for me. By recommending books for my specific situation, suggesting different tools, strategies, and frameworks, my entire mindset shifted for the better.”
— CLIENT TESTIMONIAL